I have come to know that my role as a wife is very significant and that it should not be taken lightly. I also know that I will be held accountable for the way I choose to walk out my role as a Christian wife. I want my life--my whole life to not only represent my King well, I also want to hear my beloved King say; "Well done..." at the end of my days...I hope these tips encourage you to make your husband a priority, rebuild any love loss, heal hurts and put us all on the path to a better marriage! 33 Wife Tips 1. Have Sex. I am going to get this out of the way up front. Your man needs sex. Give it to him. It is not only about our needs as women, it is vital for them. Never ever -- ever use sex as a tool or weapon. Sex is a beautiful gift for marriage and we should never mistreat anything God gives us! If you have issues with sex, seek God, seek professional help, or speak to a trusted Biblically sound friend/mentor. The bottom line: sex is far too important in your marriage to ignore. I encourage you to actively pursue a healthy and consistent sex life with your husband. It will help ward of sexual sin and relieve his stress...it will also help you both live longer! LOL!2. Play More. Men like to play with their wives. Make efforts to do things your husband enjoys. Deep down, they want us with them as a playmate. If your husband has a hobby, learn to do it with him and have fun. Or, learn something together and do it regularly. Play cards or games together. The … [Read more...]
Flowers
My husband brought home flowers for me yesterday. This really was out of the blue. You see, he is not really the "romantic" type and on this day, he got a call from one of our 'bills' to discover I forgot to pay it. So, it was an especially good day for him to be irritated with me. However, I got flowers. I was surprised, to say the least, and so being me, I had to analyze the situation in my head until I found an answer to this unusual behavior. LOL! A light bulb went on! I have been showing my husband reverence. Lately, I have been kind with my words, gentle in my tone and preferring him as often as I can beat my flesh into submission to do so.God has been giving me the same Scripture over and over again in my study time. I shared it yesterday and I will share it again today for those who may have missed it... ...and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly. - Ephesians 5:33b Reverence - awe of, revere, a feeling or attitude of deep respect tinged with awe, the outward manifestation of this feeling.The thesaurus gave some more insight; honor, admiration, adoration, devotion, show honor and devotion to, look up to, respectfully cherish.On the flip side; disrespect, dishonor, despise, scorn, mock, snap one's fingers at, disregard, hatred. Sadly, I have spent for too … [Read more...]
Reader Feedback