I have come to know that my role as a wife is very significant and that it should not be taken lightly. I also know that I will be held accountable for the way I choose to walk out my role as a Christian wife. I want my life--my whole life to not only represent my King well, I also want to hear my beloved King say; "Well done..." at the end of my days...I hope these tips encourage you to make your husband a priority, rebuild any love loss, heal hurts and put us all on the path to a better marriage! 33 Wife Tips 1. Have Sex. I am going to get this out of the way up front. Your man needs sex. Give it to him. It is not only about our needs as women, it is vital for them. Never ever -- ever use sex as a tool or weapon. Sex is a beautiful gift for marriage and we should never mistreat anything God gives us! If you have issues with sex, seek God, seek professional help, or speak to a trusted Biblically sound friend/mentor. The bottom line: sex is far too important in your marriage to ignore. I encourage you to actively pursue a healthy and consistent sex life with your husband. It will help ward of sexual sin and relieve his stress...it will also help you both live longer! LOL!2. Play More. Men like to play with their wives. Make efforts to do things your husband enjoys. Deep down, they want us with them as a playmate. If your husband has a hobby, learn to do it with him and have fun. Or, learn something together and do it regularly. Play cards or games together. The … [Read more...]
33 Tips to Be a Better Wife
The Man Irritates Me…
If you have been reading recently, then you know I am in the middle of a vacation of sorts...It has been challenging to say the least. God is good though, and giving me the strength I need to get through this...Yes, I am indeed referring to our vacation. LOL! As I mentioned in previous posts, we have to remain home for this vacation because of the lack of funds. Being home makes it easier to become irritated with his ways...So, I am admitting to you now: The Man Irritates Me... We do not see things quite the same way and when you throw kids into the mix, well, you are most likely to encounter some sort of friction.If you knew me and were a close friend, you would know that I am a no-nonsense, straight-forward woman who does not take crap. You would also know that I will tell you like it is--if needed. It can be a GREAT quality in a friend. My friends have told me how much they love me and my 'refreshing' personality. Unfortunately, this is not a good quality in a wife...Many times, when my husband provokes me, I have had to tell my beloved husband where he can put it...if you know what I mean. ;) Sadly, it has only made things worse and damages any progress made in the relationship.Thankfully, I am taking a new--GOD inspired approach! :)Can you guess what it is???It's called shutting my mouth.Yes, shutting up.Keeping quiet.Zipping the lips. In a multitude of words transgression is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is … [Read more...]
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